Today I was able to talk to a man who is originally from Sri Lanka but has moved to the States in the last few years. I took the opportunity to ask this man about some of the cultural do's and don'ts of Sri Lanka, and in return he also told me a little bit of background about the area as well.
He said that there are two native languages in Sri Lanka. The language in the north is called Tamil and the language in the south is call Sinhalese. There is tension between these two areas but not enough that it results in violence. The North area of Sri Lanka is separated from the South by nearly 150 miles of land (and some mountains) but because of limited and slow development of transportation, the trip takes nearly 8 hours.
The climate is tropical, which translates to hot and muggy, so light clothes are recommended. The coldest area of Sri Lanka is 60 miles inland from Galle in the mountains. At its lowest, the temperature can get between 40 and 50 degrees in the winter.
He said that Galle (South Sri Lanka) is primarily a Buddhist area, though there are some Catholics from Portuguese influence. He said that though the Catholics are allowed to practice their beliefs, they are not allowed to practice "conversions." Buddhists see conversion to Christianity as an un-sacred event, and they do not stand for it. This sometimes results in violence.
Just because the landscaping of the country has changed, doesn't mean that the religion has changed. In the Sri Lanka newspaper today, there was an article regarding all of the Christians who have entered the country to help aid the people into recovery. They are lowering their guard enough to let us help, but they will not tolerate our preaching.
Being that we are to respect these people, and will bear witness by our actions more than our words, we are asking those who go with us to chose your battles carefully, listen for the voice of God, respect others before yourself, and do not answer without being asked. As a wise man said, "People don't care that you know, until they know that you care."
DO'S:-DO bow when greeting someone
-DO dress modestly (women, no tank tops or shorts)
-DO speak slowly, as English is not their first language
-DO dress nicely when attending church (women, no pants)
-DO respect the traditions of the Buddhist religion, even though you may choose not to follow them
DON'Ts:-DON'T hug anyone until they hug you
-DON'T say or do anything that would be offensive in America (it's offensive there too)
-DON'T flirt
-DON'T push your beliefs on anyone (and that's not just for Sri Lanka)
If I find out more I will let you know. The women in Sri Lanka still dress and act very modestly. Because of tourism, local people are used to Western dress and are not easily offended by it. It is good to show respect for a people's culture, however, as much as possible while you are in their community.
More to come, keep us in your prayers:
Sarah Turner